Dear Patrick: I am very sure that I am a top. The other side of BDSM holds no erotic charge for me at all

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Not cut out to start at the bottom

Dear Patrick: I very stupidly allowed my last master to have his name tattooed on my thigh. Why would he do this to me if he was just going to throw me out a few months later, claiming I had no potential to become a lifestyle submissive? It took me more than a year to get back to a stable place emotionally and financially.

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A mark is a permanent record

Dear Patrick, I have been a member of the kink scene since my twenties. I am now in my mid-forties, and still have memberships in a few of the larger groups and make a round of the clubs from time to time. I very much want to continue to be a part of the community.

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Don’t want to play a perpetual student

Dear Patrick, I recently struck up an acquaintance with a young lady online who said that she had four years of experience as a “sensuous female dominant.” Because she talked a good game, I agreed to meet her, and it was a disaster. Or at least a huge disappointment

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Online and Offline, That is The Question

Dear Patrick Can the male nipple become the erotic equivalent of the female breast? My wife is quite bossy in bed, and she wants my nipples to respond to her by getting hard. She has put clamps on them, tugged on them and bitten them, used hot wax and nasty little emery boards until they are perpetually sore.

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Tit Torture