Dear Patrick: I am concerned that every time I play, I seem to require higher levels of pain. Each scene is ‚ heavier‚ than the last
See the original post here:
Ask Patrick: Scared to be a SuperMasochist?
Dear Patrick: I am concerned that every time I play, I seem to require higher levels of pain. Each scene is ‚ heavier‚ than the last
See the original post here:
Ask Patrick: Scared to be a SuperMasochist?
Dear Patrick, I have been a member of the kink scene since my twenties. I am now in my mid-forties, and still have memberships in a few of the larger groups and make a round of the clubs from time to time. I very much want to continue to be a part of the community.
See more here:
Don’t want to play a perpetual student
Dear Patrick: I wish to be consecrated to the Vampire Lord who rules this city. By doing so, I would join a family of donors who keep their blood in a pure state so they can instantly gratify His needs. The blood is drawn with a sterile needle and tubing, then collected in a tumbler of brandy.
View original post here:
Build Trust
Dear Patrick: What can you do about the fucking wankers? I am truly sick of them. They look the part, they talk the part, and they dress the part.
The rest is here:
Walk it like you talk it
Dear Patrick: I am very sure that I am a top. The other side of BDSM holds no erotic charge for me at all
See the rest here:
Not cut out to start at the bottom
Dear Patrick: I very stupidly allowed my last master to have his name tattooed on my thigh. Why would he do this to me if he was just going to throw me out a few months later, claiming I had no potential to become a lifestyle submissive? It took me more than a year to get back to a stable place emotionally and financially.
Read this article:
A mark is a permanent record
Dear Patrick, I recently struck up an acquaintance with a young lady online who said that she had four years of experience as a “sensuous female dominant.” Because she talked a good game, I agreed to meet her, and it was a disaster. Or at least a huge disappointment

See the original post:
Online and Offline, That is The Question
Dear Patrick Can the male nipple become the erotic equivalent of the female breast? My wife is quite bossy in bed, and she wants my nipples to respond to her by getting hard. She has put clamps on them, tugged on them and bitten them, used hot wax and nasty little emery boards until they are perpetually sore.
See the original post:
Tit Torture